I’m actually not so bad when it comes to doing my daughter’s hair, especially when you consider the fact that I’m a forty-something bald male. I’ve heard stories of girls crying as tufts are being ripped out or pulled way too tight. If anything, I can be accused of being way out of style.
People know it when I do my daughter’s hair because she looks straight out of the 80’s. I suppose it’s because that’s the last time I had hair.
There’s a lot worse problems a girl could have. At least at her current age (6), she’s not so worried about what fashion mags tell her so if she loves the wind blown look and wants to don her favorite feather earring, so be it.